Its ok to not be slobbing and spitting 💦 sliding and slippin' on the 🍆 right now . And you are STILL POPPIN'✨ even if you don't have someone who makes you blast and sing "Cuzzzz I am in love with you ! ❤ You set me freeeeee . I can't do this thing called life without you here with me ! "  Cuz Bey also said she could "Keep a bigger smile on my face being alone . " 👑

I turn my damn self on, when I think of what I've overcome and accomplished . I'm proud of who I am and glad I'm not where I was even a year ago - depressed and to' up over someone I dated for five years who was cheating on me from year one  . I learned from that situation and it made me a better woman . But it took some time . 

I say all that to say -

Focus on YOU & whatever it is that you want to do AT ALL TIMES, even if you are loving someone else. LOVE YOU FIRST . When you truly love yourself , it helps you to love other people better & protects you from being hurt if they ever hurt you or stop loving you . The love you have for yourself will always be enough .  Whether its school, work, shoppin, being a model, becoming a doctor , being a makeup artist, a community activist, a cosmetologist, or using what your Momma gave you being a stripper . It doesn't matter . 🤘🏾Whatever it is you want to do , DO IT. Perfect your hustle & don't neglect your hustle - man or no man, dick or no dick 💋😘