am I the only one not constantly having sex?

Moriah
I feel as if all the posts on here about sex, everyone else talks about the sex that they have all the time and when I constantly log that I am not having sex for days in a row this app tells me "oh it's okay". Like, I didn't know that everyone else wants and has sex all the time. At least that's how it seems. Sometimes it is things going on in my life, conflict in schedules (I do not live with my boyfriend), or just.. don't want to. 
I've also been experiencing pain during sex that lube doesn't do anything to alleviate the pain. Help!