Have you ever been been scared to get your hopes up for a specific gender just because you don't wanna get sad if it's not what you were hoping ?

I have a girl and currently pregnant with my 2nd ( 16 weeks ) and obviously I'd love to have a boy so my family can be complete. But I don't wanna get hopes up because if it's not what I hope for then I'd just be sad ( I get so emotional on pregnancy) and obviously if it's a girl I will love her just as much as I would've with a boy. It just people telling me "watch watch it will be a boy"  or " I'm praying it will be a boy" . This and that. Blah