Am I in the wrong for feeling this way?

Question

I've been with my SO for over 4 years. We live together and have a baby on the way.
Every since I met him, he had alot of issues with he's mom. She can be such a (sorry for my language) BITCH! I've been there for him when she hasnt.
She forgets he's birthday, if she has a gathering at her home he is never invited. Even when tho we live in the same building smh.
last year I texted her that it was he's bday because she had forgotten.  And she came up to our home with a plastic bag with easter cupcake liners. As a gift
A gift is a gift and should be thankful but cmon. 
(he doesn't bake by the way)
So recently she has been talking to him and out of nowhere is blowing me off to be with her. I'm mad I'm jealous idk what I'm feeling but I feel like she doesn't deserve it.

Answer

You are not wrong for feeling that way because you can't help what you feel. And I understand it because she sounds like kind of a sub par mom. But I'm sure you know that children always crave the approval and love of their parents, even when it's not rational. If he's been ignored by his mom he still probably wants her attention deep down and that's why he would jump at the chance to spend time with her if she's suddenly acting like she gives a crap.

I don't want to be cynical but realistically she'll go right back to being inattentive soon enough. Be patient and be there to comfort him when the time comes.

Answer

I would just support him if he wants to rekindle his relationship with his mother, if you show any reaction, you could easily become the enemy.  No matter how crazy she is, always be loving and caring towards your MIL, even if you are faking it.

Am I in the wrong for feeling this way?

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