Should I?

Question

I keep going back and forth on if I want a baby. I had a miscarriage when I was 18 now I'm 22 and I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year living together. He's almost 30. We get along pretty well and I love him but he says he doesn't want kids and I want to be 25-27 ideally when I have a baby because I have at least 5 more years of college. I guess im not quite sure where I'm going with this but I'm scard I won't be able to have a baby and also shiuld I wait that long I'm worried about cancer my whole family has had it and had breasts and uterious removed.
I sorry if this doesn't make sense just looking for input from a third party

Answer

If he doesn't want children and he's made that clear, I think you should end the relationship now, and save yourself more heartache later.  If you're thinking about it this much already and you're only 22, it's clear your desire to have a baby will only get stronger as you get older. I don't think you should be concerned about waiting until you're 25-27, that is completely reasonable. I would encourage you to speak with a Dr. or genetic counselor about your risk for cancer, it may bring you some peace to know the facts.

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I would make sure he's on the same page as you first

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Don't have a baby because you MIGHT need a hysterectomy at some time in the future. You can still have kids when you're a little older. You will be better able to provide for a child if you have an education first.

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