Rant about my doc! Anyone else?

Or should I say FORMER ob/gyn!

I went in 2 weeks ago for a 'problem visit' because over the past 6 months, I start cramping around ovulation time and it continues through my period (which has gotten longer and much heavier).

She's so rough and fast during the exam that I can't even tell which way is up or how I'm really feeling (pain, etc) because I'm like, in shock of what she's doing!

Also, she uses an old school, metal speculum that I do NOT trust to be sanitary.

She was more preoccupied about tell me she was retiring than really focusing on my problems. I told her we were ttc no less than FOUR times that visit, once after every time she asked if I'm on/wanted to be on birth control!

I had to go back today for my routine pap, (which she couldn't remember if she did or not by the end of the last visit even!) And she kept asking again about bc, like DUDE READ MY FRIGGIN CHART WTF DID I SPEND 15 MINS WITH YOUR ASSISTANT FOR, ANSWERING THE SAME DAMN QUESTIONS?!?!?

Good riddance!