Do you consider this wrong and inappropriate?

This old friend of mine was 14/15 and had this huge crush on her youth pastor, who was about 19/20 at the time. Obsessive almost. She ended up moving in with him and his parents not long after, around when she was 16, and lived there for years. Sure enough, when she turns 18 they announce they're dating and get married within the year. Since then she's an entirely different person. He chooses her clothes, her hair, chose her wedding dress, and had to approve the guests outfits who were family and close to the family (doesn't want us to make him look bad?). He literally controls every aspect of everything he can. She even told me once that he expects her to be a stay at home mom, have hair and makeup done every day, and the house be spotless, and she was obviously bothered by it. She's not the sharpest tool in the shed, but he is one of them...