Do you feel unappreciated by your s/o

My SO will be a complete ass. Like no matter how much i cook clean or provide for him. There's always something negative. Tonight im upset about some news from my doctor and my possible chance of not having a baby. And i cleaning and he texts mad that I'm I'm edge. I apologized and said he just doesn't understand what I'm going through Which he replied with "your probably not even cleaning you're too lazy" (sorry bit of a rant trying to not argue with him)