SO and Husband late nights

• Cool, laid back. In a happy committed relationship
Now correct me if I'm wrong but the other day I made a post about what time you think your SO or husband should come home. Tbh I give a damn if he called and communicated I personally think it is unacceptable for a man to come home everyday at 3am reguardless if he answered the phone or not. If you are ok with your SO coming in everyday @3am and later you possibly don't love him or care to spend anytime with him. If so, what's the point of the relationship. Need advice what is an appropriate time for your mate to come home??