Okay, so I just had a mutual breakup a week ago, and I've been miserable and can't help but look back at the problems we had in our relationship. We ended three days after our 17 month anniversary. We had talked about it before hand and how We knew we were close to our end, but I can't help but look at the turning point in our relationship when everything started going down hill. We just became sexually active, and just three days Before our 1 year, we got caught by my dad, and he nearly broke us up. Since then we started getting unhappier because I was too afraid to be sexual but it was something he needed. In the end we agreed We just started becoming different people with different needs. We still love each other and want to be together, but I feel like I gave up too soon and gave in to my dad's fear tactic. He doesn't want me doing anything sexual with anyone and assumes that I am completely uneducated and not prepared for the emotional toll, when that's the part that matters most to me. I want to talk to my ex and I want to ask his honest opinion on a couple things, including if we should try something new for at least another month, and if it doesn't work, then just power through the pain. I know he's worth it but I don't know if it's a good choice. He's sweet, and sensitive, and in-touch with his feelings and always honest and playful. He's gorgeous and he really cares about me. We had some other issues, he wasn't always the most trustworthy of me and went through my phone once and thought I was cheating because I didn't respond to him for a while (when I was in Disney land). He sometimes just takes and never gives, but it's something he wanted to work on with me. I really want to be more confident, and I don't want to intentionally defy my dad, but I fell so hard for this boy and I want to give it one more shot. He makes me so happy that I cry sometimes and I just don't want to realize later that this was a mistake. I really need help
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