Announcing to friends with infertility

Allison
We're getting ready to enter the 2nd trimester, and that means announcement time. We expect mostly positive reactions, but there's two families I dread telling. One couple had recently suffered their second miscarriage. Another the wife wants kids now (or anytime in the last 3 years, they've been married for 6 years),but her husband is not "ready". She's become very hurt, as I was, over the many pregnancies and births in our church while she's stuck with an unsupportive husband. We're telling everyone as a group, so tat shouldn't be terribly awkward, it's after that I'm worried about. Thoughts? Advice?