So we haven't had sex this whole pregnancy.. I know.. crazy but I just haven't felt like it. Now it's 37 wks and hubby is keen to have sex as he hasn't had it in sooooo long and I know it could move things along. However, it was soooo painful we couldn't even penetrate. We didn't end up doing it, this was being very gentle too. Anyone had this problem?also how effective is it really in speeding things up? I'm ready to move things along now.. raspberry tea leaf  is gross... it's literally like hitting a brick wall :-( I think maybe it's b cause we haven't done it in like over 8 months... now I feel a bit fat for it and awkward.