fear & loathing in east nowheresville

No Name • No Name Dame at your service
I've been seeing a very kind-hearted and sweet guy since January but he has some stuff happening in his personal life that makes it VERY difficult for him to have a girlfriend. Now I'm faced with telling him he has to focus on his situation rather than dating. He really doesn't need more bad stuff happening in his life but I can't continue waiting for things to better; it could be years before this stuff clears up.
I know I have to do this for both of us and the sooner the better... it just doesn't help that I'm also extremely sexually frustrated right now, too. 😂
Help a sister out? Encouragement, humour, stories are all welcome!