Need cycle buddy!! AF due 4/2 but she likes to be unpredictable

Hey ladies! Me and my husband are trying to conceive baby #2! We both have fertility issues so who knows if it will happen anytime soon! My cycles go anywhere from 28 days to 42! It took us almost 6 years to conceive our son! I feel like people don't get it! All my family keeps asking when we will have baby number 2 and I'm constantly repeating the same thing!! "We are trying but it could take another 6 years" I need someone to talk too that understands!!