Additional/ we are both in the medical field so the hours aren't very flexible. Dad is on call at least one day a week and some weekends, he doesn't get to decide which ones. I have had my job for 10 years and would hate to quit because I have a retirement and I don't think I'd be happy not being able to support myself a little, plus retirement. We are not married so it would also limit my healthcare benefits to quit my job.