UPDATE!! Any single moms out there??

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I am 17 years old please don't judge. I have a 5 month old and I think I am about to be a single mom. The last past year my partner and I have just been fighting almost every single day. This last few weeks there has not been a day that we havent argue. Every weekend he goes out comes home at 4 in the morning. When he comes he is accusing me of cheating and if I dont have sex with him he starts being aggressive. His sister and I have not been getring along a hour ago he came fron her house she told him alot of shit about me, she told him I am cheating on him, which Im not because I am always home with my daughter. She wants to manipulate him, and I think she won him already bcz we just had a huge argument and he said he was leaving tomorrow. I've been with him for 3 years. He is 21, and the problem he has is drinking and he just lies and lies...I just want some support from any other single mom out there, what they did to get over that person. I will go live with my mom, I live accross from her, I already graduated from high school 2 monthz ago with honors. I just don't know why this happens to me, My whole world is falling apart. He says he is the victim and let me tell you how rude he is with me. He never says thank you when I do sometjing for him, he is always complaining and yelling. And my baby gets scared and I already told him not to do that. But he is a MACHISTA he is very controlling, he doesnt let me go anywhere. He always snatches the phone away from me If i get a text. This started back when I got pregnant, and every weekend he gies to clubs, and his stupid sister tells him to go with them to clubs. I am tired, but I am not string enough to leave him, just the fear of him being with other makes me angry. IF ANYONE HAS GONE THROUGH THIS PLEASE TELL ME HOW YOU DID IT? I am adding this anonymously because some women here are just so rude. Thank you..😭💔
UPDATE: I read the few replies I got, I can't believe the support I got it means so much Thank you!
And returning to the tittle he left yesterday, he just came to pick up his stuff and left. Im going to start working and paying my own bills I wont be going to live to my moms house because everything I have wont fit there ans the baby needs alot of space. Im totally devastated and heart broken, but he chose to leave on his own, I respect his decision. He wont be hearing from me anymore. Any ways thank you for all of you who replied❤❤❤❤❤❤

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Going through the same thing right now!! Im 17 and have a 9 month old. Not a day goes by that we don't argue or he accuses me of cheating. He's 19 and we've been together for 3 years. I feel like ever since I gotten pregnant, he just won't commit to his responsibilities. I live at home and the moment and he lives at his Moms. I'm going through the process of getting child support and making sure I get ALL rights!!! I've had my son by my side since he came out... I haven't had any time to myself while he can go do whatever he wants and it makes my blood boil!! I just wanted to let you know that you aren't alone and I hope you get through this rough time. Do what's right for you and your baby! If you were to ever ask to leave a situation you're in, then that relationship isn't right. Also, you don't want your baby to grow up and think it's okay to treat women bad! That's where my baby's father gets it from. Good luck! I really really do wish you the best and only the best!!❤

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You've graduated high school and you're only 17....not only did you do that, but you did it while pregnant and caring for a child. Oh wait, you graduated with honors too!  So that tells me you're a fucking badass that can accomplish all her dreams, desires and goals. Wtf are you doing with this loser?  You deserve better.  Sticking with this guy could stifle your growth and ruin your life. I was a single mother in college and trust me, leave his ass and never look back.  You don't need dead weight right now. It only takes time to get over a man and not "hooking up" with him ever again.

I mean what I said about you being a badass. You're 17 and doing things other teens aren't even thinking about doing. You've got a bright future ahead of you....don't waste it.

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Leave and forget about him. Do it for your daughter's wellbeing.

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He sounds like a shitty person honestly, you have your baby to worry about, and if he's doing this things in front of her and scaring the baby, it's not good. Think of it this way, do you want your daughter, who is supposed to grow up thinking that she can do anything and no one can control her or stop her from her dreams, to grow up and watch someone constantly verbally abuse you and belittle you and try to control you? I say get out before any of this starts to effect her, and make sure her life is better than this. You can do waaay better, you're young and you have a whole life ahead of you, it's not too late to change the way things are going

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Yep I'm a 37 year old single mum! Had my son at 24 and walked out on my ex when my son was 3 weeks old! He hit me one too many times and I wasn't putting up with the abuse! Its been tough but you can manage alone. You should never put up worth people who treat you like crap! I've finally found Mr right 14 years later! Good luck!

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I am so sorry that you have to go through this. First off, a huge congratulations on your girl! And second off girl, say bye to him I know it will be hard because he is the father of your child but first of all it's illegal to date a minor (you) so he kinda fucked in the brain for thinking that's okay on his part! You did nothing wrong but he is not a good guy it seems. The sooner you leave him the easier it will be ❤️❤️

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Honestly, I would not personally understand your situation. But I am 18 and have dated several guys, you shouldn't be with someone like that you and your baby don't deserve that kind of crap. This is called abuse and you have to be able to put your foot down and stop it. I would suggest filing a restraining order on him so he can stay away from you and your baby. I understand how difficult it must be to take care of a baby all on your own, but do the right thing and not let someone who is being a jerk to you continue to do this. My ❤️ goes out to you!

UPDATE!! Any single moms out there??

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