TTC 1 Year +++

This community is kind of frustrating me.  "BFP after 2 months!  FINALLY!"  -  that gets REALLY annoying to see.  I sought this app out bc I did not have success within the first year.  I'm 26 and healthy, husband is 30 and healthy.  High volume, morphology of 5% and mobility 30%.  Normal/low ranges but still normal.  We have a son who is 3 and we conceived on birth control... Total "whoops" but now that were trying, it's impossible.