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Could I be the problem?
So my husband went out for guys night yesterday. He rarely does that. I was totally ok with that. But then didn't come home until 230 AM drunk with his friends, almost woke up our 3 yr old and then peed in our kitchen floor. Before this I was pissed because it was getting late and we have a child and dogs that bark real loud so I didn't want him home to late. He told me that the first words out of his newly divorced friend and my brother were how long it was gonna be until I got pissed about something. I took so much offense to that. So I care about you and like to know your not being irresponsible or dead and your friend and my brother say that and you don't defend me! Now I'm super upset. I then texted him later on about midnight because I was tired. We have an alarm system and I did not want it to sound when he got home so I kept telling him to not drive drunk and text me when they were coming so I can shut the alarm off and unlock the door. I know how is newly divorced friend is and he can get him in trouble from time to time. He then proceeds to show said friend my texts where I said I didn't care what his friend did that he has responsibilities and he needs to not be influenced by him. His friend then starts texting me. I stopped at this point and said just text me so I can shut off the alarm. 2 hours go by and I hear nothing. Of course I'm sleeping on and off. He comes home and this morning I find out he lost his credit card, peed on my kitchen floor, was pissed that he showed his friend my texts then proceeds to say I embarrassed him. I said no one would have known anything I said if u didn't show them. I so pissed. I don't even know what to do or say. My husband is 31 not 21. I just can't handle this shit anymore.