I need some advice. Let me give you some background. I have been ttc for almost 4 months now, but I am married to a woman and we have a donor so it is hard for us to BD often. I had irregular cycles, last one was 70 days long, and I ovulated on CD 57.

I've been trying methods to help me ovulate, such as self fertility massage the past two nights, grapefruit juice, evening primrose oil, and maca. Since I started all that two days ago, I had EWCM today. The ovulation test I took today was dark but not dark enough.

Should I ask my donor to make a deposit even though I don't have a positive OPK? Should I wait and see if i do get a positive soon? I just don't want to waste a chance and have to wait another 50 days or more. It is only CD 29 right now.