We've been TTC for 2 1/2 years. Every month is more heartbreaking than the month before it. My fertility specialist said I had to lose 20 pounds before she would do treatment (<a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IUI</a>). I finally am down 22 pounds and I went today. She said I have to lose 8 more because I'm not down 20 pounds from where I started 2 years ago. I down 20 pounds from where I am was earlier this year. I'm devestated. I can do 8 pounds but I'm 35 years old. Do I get another opinion or just suck it up? I've worked really hard to get here, was feeling so good, and now feel totally defeated. I'm so scared that my eggs will be gone. My AMH was 2, 2 years ago.