what am I supposed to do???

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We have been together for going on 5 years I don't know what I'm supposed to do! We don't live together yet. He came over and seemed really distant and even when we made love it just felt like we weren't connecting on the same level like we normally do. When he left and went home I asked if everything was ok and this was the text I got...

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Listen to him without jumping down his throat or to conclusions. Or doing that crazy B thing we tend to do when we feel things are going south lol

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First of all talk about and not text. Figure out why it doesn't feel the same anymore, what has changed and so forth. Usually someone had sparked the others interests, therefore; they distant themselves from SO. Personal experience, talk about it. Either your both going to work at it or not.

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I went through something like that a few weeks ago, a sort of "disconnect" with my boyfriend, and everything he said I kinda twisted to be "wow he doesn't care about me as much as I thought he did" or "if he really loved me he would ___" like stupid stuff that wasn't true 😂 we're human everyone goes through phases give him a bit of time he'll probably come back around

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The honeymoon phase is over. He just isn't sure what it is. Talk it over and remember you both have to keep working to keep the relationship alive

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So an update on it all. He came over tonight and I confronted him about it (in person) and he basically said he doesn't remember anything from yesterday evening. He told me he doesn't remember even coming over or getting home and that his mother asked him this morning why he made so much food last night and he told her that he didn't remember making any food at all. He told me that when he woke up this morning his tablet was on a website about to purchase something worth $1300 and he had no idea and quickly canceled the paperwork. He does not drink unless it's a holiday and he does not do any type of drug or smoke anything. I'm not quite shire why he doesn't remember anything from yesterday evening but this is not the first time this has happened eaither. His mother told me it's been happeneing since he was young.

what am I supposed to do???

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