help with frizzy thick puffy wavy hair !

Hi everyone ! 
I really hope someone can help me .
My hair is so hard to manage , I have so much hair , it's thick and frizzy and puffs out . I have no idea on how to style it .  I always hated my hair 
Living in Florida , the humidity and all , my hair is in a ponytail 99.9% of the time . It's only straight after spending an hour or more straightening it . Which I never do 
I'm looking for a way to wear my hair down styling my hair with its natural  wave without all the frizz and poof . Something "hopefully " that doesn't take longer then 20 min to do 
I can't be the only one with this type of hair .. although I believe I might be lol 
Attached is photos of my hair airdried with no product and looking better then usual lol 
 ANY AND ALL ADVICE IS SO APPRECIATED !!