Apparently being nice is passe.

What the hell ever happened to the whole if you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all thing we were taught as kids? Especially on here. Community is supposed to be supportive but WAY too many people on here are BEYOND rude, so it's not really a community, at least a healthy and helpful one. You CAN say things how you see them without being rude and disrespectful about it. Amazing, I know.