Hey I didn't know where to post this and since adoption is so controversial I want to ask here for the best responses because you ladies give it straight and intelligently. We live in the state of Kentucky and we want to adopt a child. How much does the process cost firstly? Secondly what are the basic requirements? Wdc of its national international or regional. Wdc if my child is mentally handicapped. Wdc about it being a boy or a girl. We'd prefer a baby but will adopt a child between infant to 9 years of age. We are married and we either have to pay out the but for fertility treatments or do adoption. We don't know which want we want. We are willing to pay any amount for a child no matter what and will adopt at some point anyways but we don't know of we should go for <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">fertility treatment</a> for our first child or just adopt. I would love to carry a child more than anything but being parents is our number one priority. What do you ladies think? Any advice? Costs? Pros and cons?