Best way to deal with someone that you dislike?

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How do you deal with people that you dislike? Do you try to see them as little as possible? May you try to sort out your issues in some kind of confrontation? Do you just do your best to keep your dislike a secret? And which way you do think is the best?

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It depends on the relationship you have with that person.

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It depends. I dislike my aunt but I tolerate her. I dislike my ex's friends so I avoid them. I dislike this dude who won't stop texting me so I'm a bitch.

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It depends on who the person is however I am very vocal about my dislike for someone. If I don't like you then you will know because I will tell you I don't like you and I will tell you why. I usually confront people who have a problem with me or who I have a problem with

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I've had to cut off a few friends, and if possible I prefer to just distance myself from them and let it break off naturally. People fall apart without trying sometimes, so I often try to play it off like that to avoid unnecessary conflict. Doesn't always work, but sometimes people haven't actually done anything wrong, you just can't really have them an active presence in your life, and I like to just let them go without too many hurt feelings or whatnot.

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Both! So I had a roommate who was a literal psychopath. She created a group chat to talk shit about me with the rest of the girls we lived with and basically went full on Regina George on me 😂. Anyway I literally said "So I hear you've been talking shit" let her have it and then after I was done moved all my shit out and deleted her off everything. Best decision of my life. I don't regret telling her to fuck off at all. And cutting her out of my life along with all the other girls has been really good for me.

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Ive learnt over the years to just cut off all contact, ignore the hell out of them, leave them on 'read'...and to be honest it usually annoys them even more than confronting them 😄

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It depends on who they are... at work I kill them with kindness or avoid them. 
   
Family I have a high tolerance for. 
   
If we were friends or in a relationship and they F'd me over I light that MF match and watch that bridge burn.

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It depends who it is and the situation

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I try to avoid my SIL at all costs. If she calls, I let it go to voicemail and will text her back because I can't stand her voice or her existence. (We lived together from 2014-2015 and she had a bunch of dudes in and out of my house while her brother was out to sea and we fought a lot about it.) she tried to get her brother to divorce me... so I really have no interest in talking to her.

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It depends on the situation. But, I think it's best to cut off communication, AFTER you confront them.

Best way to deal with someone that you dislike?

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