My husband has the fear that if he has sex with me while pregnant, I'm going to start bleeding and possibly miscarry. Anyone else going through this with their SO?

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He just loves this baby so much and doesn't want anything to happen to it. He literally says to me, don't jostle the egg basket. He's so sweet. I can't wait til next week when/if the Dr gives him the okay to jump on the train. 😂

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That happened during my second miscarriage. I had sex then the next day started miscarrying. I'm pretty sure that's not what caused it and the sex just opened it up so everything could come out. But this time we had sex multiple times a day almost everyday and I'm due next month 😂 so I doubt it has anything to do with it

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Well I know this won't help but I am 26 +5 and my OH won't come near me we have only had sex once and that was in the first tri. Now he knows it's a girl it freaks him out more. So unfortunately for me it's going to be a long 9months and many months after that. Your not alone. Don't worry. X

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Same boat. Managed to convince him it was okay to have sex with me and the baby would be grand. Sure enough, he got over his fear and for a while there - we were back in business.

Until... one day.... during sex - I bled. EVERYWHERE. Crime scene style. (He had disrupted my cervix, separate non pregnancy related issue). He was completely traumatized, convinced himself he had killed the baby with his penis and has not had sex with me since :(

It's desperate.

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I had to stop having sex due to low placenta. But unless you have some kind of condition that would make sex dangerous during pregnancy, you should be fine.

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My husband will not touch me when I'm pregnant. It drives me nuts.

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Sex causes me to spot during pregnancy so it's super scary, especially for him. We've had sex 4 times and I am 32 weeks.

My husband has the fear that if he has sex with me while pregnant, I'm going to start bleeding and possibly miscarry. Anyone else going through this with their SO?

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