broke up with baby dad within two days blows his check at a strip club..he probably cheated too right?

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He is usually a softy and a lover to the public he appears sprung like I'm the mean one but whenever we argue or I break up with him his downfall tends to be in trying to start  talking to other girls supposably just to get me mad I'm too old and have two kids one his
What you girls think?

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You broke up with him. Hes single. He can do whatever he wants it's not cheating just because you change your mind

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It sounds like you're "breaking up" with him as a scare tactic to make him get his shit together. That's not ok. A) that's not how you work out your problems like an adult. B) he obviously doesn't give a shit

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This reminds me of Ross and Rachel.

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How often do you break up with him???

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You broke up. He's single. Stop breaking up with him if you don't want him to be single.

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Why would you keep going back is my question

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What do I think? You broke up with him so he is free to do what he wants. If this is a habit why do u keep breaking up with him and then taking him back? Either break up for good or work out the issues...

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I think he needs to grow up bc what father blows his pay check at a strip club?  I also think that you might need to grow up a little too.  Children deserve stability, and this is certainly not stable.

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It's not cheating since he's single now.

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I understand your post completely.. but I also agree if he's single then he can do whatever he wants.. 
However, if a man really loves a woman his first instinct wouldn't be to find another woman.. There's some truth to every action.. I don't believe it's to just hurt you. I've been in that relationship.. it's sad that right after a breakup he can just move on it sounds like he checked out a long time ago. I am sorry you have to go through that it hurts deeply.

broke up with baby dad within two days blows his check at a strip club..he probably cheated too right?

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