My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years, he has slept with other people before me.. But I'm a virgin. We do oral and masturbate each other but not penetration sex. I'm not waiting for marriage, I feel like I'm waiting for him. I have never told him that I am a virgin. And now that so much time as passed I'm not sure that he would believe me. Haha. I never mentioned it to him because in past relationships it has been a big deal to guys whether they are totally interested in "popping my cherry" or totally turned off and "wanting me to save myself for my future husband."