Ok, so, my guy is hung. Super hung. Like about 10" and I can't actually wrap my hand around it and close my fingers. It's past his navel when he's super hard. It was shocked the first time I saw it and he apologized. He knows he's big, but I've had to explain to him a few times that no, he's not just big. He's big even for porn. Turns out ex-gfs and even guys he knows who've seen it (so he's gotten drunk and high at a party once and spent half the night naked on a couch fapping...yeah) have told him he should go to a casting call for porn, bc the industry is actually lacking in guys with stamina and size- which he lacks neither of.

Ummm, I'm tiny, inside and out. Without an hour or two of foreplay- which we don't always have time for, sometimes we both just want a quickie before he leaves for work- it HURTS. Even with a lot of lube. If my daughter is with her father or a grandparent or my cousin (her favorite person) for the weekend and he has the day off and we spend the whole day/night in bed, I can only go 2-3 times at most before I'm too sore. He can go 5-7.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Like, for less pain during or spending recovery? I've never used numbing anal lube, I know it's dangerous, but has anyone ever used it for vaginal sex? I've actually avoided well-endowed guys since college after my first encounter with a big one, because it was painful. And now the guy I'm planning on marrying (engagement is official, I proposed) has the biggest dick I've ever been encountered and one of the biggest I've ever seen.

I've only had one or two minor vaginal years from sex with him, and they healed in a couple of days. I'm just wondering if there's anything I can do to lessen soreness so that we can have sex for more than 10-15 minutes at a time (penetrative vaginal sex) or more than twice a day.

Thanks!