It's not "keeping you from your kid" if you could literally call and ask to come over and see him/her knowing the mother wouldn't mind. It's not any of mine (or other mothers) faults if you just won't try. So stfu and quit complaining when you could so easily see your child but choose not to. That's on YOU.🤦🏻‍♀️ The only time I'm not okay with you coming over is when you call me at 10pm or later trying to see the child. My son has a bedtime which is around 8:00-8:30.🙃

And my baby dad tries to call and come over at times from 2am-6am like it's the only times he calls to see his child, then gets pissy when I refuse. I'm NOT waking my child up just so you can spend 10 minutes with him and then leave and not see him again for two months. He acts like it's just no big deal.🤦🏻‍♀️