Drifting away ..

I wish my husband would be more of the man in charge of the house. I would like him to fix things around the house but he has no intrest in doing that. My husband just seems unmotivated to do anything and its starting to really annoy me. I tell him how I feel but he just gets upset. It feels like he's more of a roommate then a husband. He literally goes to work then comes home and sleeps or is on his phone. I work ,clean ,cook and take care of the kids. I feel like I'm drifting away from him 😔😔