Alright so I can not for the life of me understand my mother or other sisters. My sister is pregnant with her 4th child. She has been keeping it from everyone (she told me already). Well today she decided she would finally share the news with everyone else. We have other sisters and brothers. She tells our mom and my mom was the first person to call me and ask me did I know. So I tell her yes. I knew. She starts going on and on about why I didn't tell her and I'm a very honest with my mom so I tell her: "Mom you are very mouthy and sometimes don't think about what you say and how it can affect people. You're negative a lot more than you are positive." My moms just still going on and on and on so I finally tell her "You talked about her and made her feel bad in the past when she had her second kid. Wtf would she tell you mom?" My mom started yelling and cursing and then she hung up the phone. 🤷🏽‍♀️ I finally get a breather and then one of our other sister calls me

Before I can even say hi all I hear is: Can you believe she is pregnant again. Oh my god she needs to get her tubes tied. They don't make enough money to keep having kids.

So I say: "I'm sorry I didn't realize that you were helping them take care of their fucking kids? Stop talking shit."

She hung up the phone on me.

I don't feel like it's anybody's place to say how many kids someone should or shouldn't have. I think it's none of anyone's business. If my sister had 7 kids and could take care of them all then it still isn't anyone's business which is exactly what I told my family about the situation. The kids are provided for. The children are taken care of and my sister and their father work really hard to give the kids everything they need. Why do people have such a hard time minding their own business and tending to their own households and uterus.