Boots too tight!

I got new boots about a month and a bit ago. Ive worn them out twice to parties. Each time my feet hurt soooooo sooooooo much, last time I went out i had to sit the entire time bc my feet were just in so much pain. The next two days after I wore them on that big night out, it felt as if my big toes were STOMPED on. They are so tight and I've tried the whole thick socks and hairdryer shit and it isn't working. I love them so much but they hurt!!! What did youse do to stretch your leather shoes out??