So I see a lot of people bashing on the young and clueless. Do y'all realize they came here for help? I mean the best thing that we can do is to encourage the younger ones to wait to have sex and build a family. I mean the younger teens here are going to do what they want but us older ones can give them advice instead of just bashing on them for making mistakes. They need to learn and by doing that they need to make occasional mistakes throughout their life so they learn from them. I mean I am young and don't really post on here because of how much bashing I see from the older and wiser women on here. I came here to get advice and to learn new things and to watch people succeed. I have not begun a family yet because sadly my man may be sterile but I'm still here so I can see what I can do to help myself begin the family I have wanted for 5 years. I know I need to get my doctors opinions as well but I choose to get my advice from others and my Dr. at the same time. I mean I'm sure I'm going to see people get mad and make mean comments on this post but I personally don't mind because I like reading what people think. I just don't care to see the negativity towards the young women on here. Yes they post stuff that sounds stupid because we know more then them but that is their way of finding out new things. We were all young and clueless at one point. Give them a break and help them learn.