Communication leads to amazing sex and closer relationship!!

Hi ladies! So my bf & I are each others first sexual partners. When we first started having sex I could never orgasm then it would happen like once a month... I always thought it was my fault and that I would figure it out. Then I realized he needs to help me!!!! Once he orgasmed sex would be over and he would be dead tired. It took some courage to be completely honest and let him know I deserve to orgasm as well and with his help!! It was a clear conversation about expectations. Now he asks what he can do to help etc. Anyway point of my story is to talk to your SO because alot of the times they just dont know. I was thinking too much and getting stuck in my thoughts when he said he wanted to make me cum and that he loved it. What do you ladies think!!!! We have been together 1 1/2 now too :)