How should I handle this.

So my and friend and I who I've know for a year had sex now prior to this we were texting and talking on the phone and seeing each other everything was good, now Saturday we had a BBQ and we had sex it was super whack by the way like I never experience bad sex, like he didn't even please me, but only pleased himself. The next day I text him just checking on him and he says what do you want you're irritating me and I need some space like lol I didn't even respond, because you act like your dick game was so good! I was mad because I feel like he played me in the beginning he was talking all this ish about how he wants to be in a relationship but back out once he got what he wanted. How should I handle this situation ? It's crazy, because he has three baby mamas and three kids which I don't mind, but at the end of the day I accepted him for who he was 🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ did I play myself? By the way I bought everything for the BBQ since he claimed he didn't have any money and I never even got a thank you 😩😩😩 I feel stupid