If you were in love with someone and had lived together for 2 1/2 out of the 3 years you've been together, and you were more financially stable, and more responsible with your money, and you also seemed to be the only one that cared about keeping the house clean etc., and no matter how much you nag you are still the only one that seems to be making an effort, and you've talked to them calmly about it and you still seem to be the only one making an effort, then what would you do?