I've always told myself and have been told to wait as long as possible for sex. I'm planning on waiting and it's going pretty good so far. My boyfriend and I are pretty young and in highschool, so we're waiting until we're ready. He's totally fine with waiting and i'm in love with him and he's in love with me. We've been dating for a year now and about 3 months into the relationship was the first time I had ever given my body to someone and it was the same for him. We've never had literal penis in vagina sex but we've done oral sex in all ways imaginable. I'm just wondering if i should still consider myself a virgin. What do you guys think??? Is oral sex the same as penetrating sex?