Ideas/Tips on dealing with BFs mates that don't like you and I dont like them?


I really dont like 2 boys in particular that my bf is best mates with. They dont like me and have said things out of spite for the way I may of acted from being insecure but now its horrible. I will and have been civil with them but its so hard to not get annoyed by certain things from them and my bf when he talks about them as I really really dont like that and they hate me. How do you giys just deal with it? Iv been told to just stay quiet and rise above it and dont get annoyed as it shows my Bf I dont care and they are in the wrong but I honestly dont feel that will work! They dont want to talk about the disagreement between us all either and its very uncomfortable x Thank you! x