Due to my husbands job we live across the country from both our families. My doctor does not want me flying after 28weeks and the time frame from now and until then isn't really convenient for me to be flying out there, plus it really is expensive. I plan on registering and letting close friends and family know I've registered if they want to send gifts and then have a party of some sort after the baby is born, when it will be better time for us. Do you think it's being selfish doing it this way or do you think people would be understanding of our situation?