How can I make him fall in love with me again

I've been with my so for three and a half years. Recently I feel like we've grown apart. We see each other less, speak less and generally don't do much as a couple. When I express to him how I'm feeling about our relationship he responds by saying 'here we go again' and he says 'would I still be here if I'd lost interest'. I just feel like we're in such a basic robot mode, each day, week and month is exactly the same. We don't live together but there no longer seems to be any excitement. I arranged for us to go on a day out and boat ride but he complained of a migraine and said he didn't want to go on the boat so the day again was just a normal day for us. How do I make everything special again. I want him to show me love and tell me how much he cares but he doesn't really do that anymore. What can I do?

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St

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You can't make anyone love you. If he loved you, he would show it

St

Stephanie • Aug 1, 2017
Or it's also possible that he could be struggling with some mental health issues. Maybe look into that, and if it sounds like him, talk to him about it. If not, he just doesnt love you anymore, sorry

Sa

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Try doing the Love Dare, it's a book that's featured in the movie Fireproof. I also highly recommend figuring out your partners love language. Read the five love languages if you haven't already.

Ms

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You should meet someone else and have fun. You will forget about him and that's when he will come back. Then you can pick. Lol. Seriously. Good luck