What is wrong with me?

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Ok so this is extremely awkward for me but does this happen to anyone else? So when my husband and I have sex I can never come to an orgasm unless I'm getting clitorial stimulation. I hate it because it makes things 10 times harder... does this happen to anyone else? I notice that people say that the actual penis going in feels so amazing but I have never experienced that with anyone and I've had some pretty good sex with my husband... I just don't get it.

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I'm the same way. Penetration feels great, but it just doesn't get me all the way. Try getting a little vibrator and using it on yourself or have him use it on you while he's in you. This is what works for me. 👌🏻

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it's pretty normal most women can't orgasm with penetration alone. though it feels really good. have him play with your clit or you rub yourself when penetration is happening it might work. or else stick to the oral

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I rub myself while he is inside of me and it turns him on even more we can go at it for awhile! Some guys find it sexy and you can almost guarantee a climax because you know what you like/need.

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I never cum from sex/vaginal intercourse with my boyfriend. but he usually only lasts a couple minutes so #1 I'm not even turned on yet by the time he's done, #2 I really don't mind that he doesn't last long because he is not very good in bed and when he tries to last longer it's not pleasant for me. He is also not good with his hands. i never had sex before him so i don't know how to tell him how to change the way he touches me. We don't talk about it because he gets butt hurt about it too. Mostly i have sex to make him happy and it makes me happy cuz he wants me. but my advice to you is, if you can cum during sex from clit oral stimulation but it's extra work for you, try asking your SO to play with your clit part of the time while you give your hand a break. try cock rings meant to help with that and other small vibes too.

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Same here. It's normal.

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I experience that too. It's actually super common

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Don't think of yourself as challenging or hard work. You are UNIQUE. We all are students of our lovers, but first of ourselves. If you know what works for you, share it and educate your lover. Pleasing one another adds so much for both partners. It's a big win-win for you AND him.

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