Being sexy in an ldr?

Question

I'm in a long distance relationship for the first time.
When I'm in person, it's easy for me to initiate or flirt & everything, but I'm realizing I don't know what I'm doing long distance. I've never really been the sexting, etc. type,  but it feels sort of necessary now haha
Can anyone relate? How do you keep the spark alive long distance? How do I stop feeling so unnatural / awkward / insincere trying to initiate things over the phone or texting? Hahah I'm struggling a little bit 😂🙈.  Any thoughts help!

Answer

Okay so professional ldr relationship advice here lol , I was in one for four years so this will be long. There's a game for phones called ipassion, you both play and answer questions about what you like in bed and about sex and then the other person had to try and guess the others answer. It's super exciting to do with your boyfriend plus you get to learn what they want and like. Invest in a selfie stick , life saver when it comes to sending pics 😉 you get amazing angles and makes taking them a lot easier 😅 videos of yourself (masticating or using a toy) if you're both comfortable with that. Daily sexual pictures (doesn't have to be nudes , just sexy) take turns, you could both send one that day or every other day someone has a turn . Use your notes app and write sex fantasies about one another and scenes you'd like to make real , be very graphic and descriptive but not too vulgar if he's not into it . Now phone sex is the tricky part, make sure you're in the mood before the actual call happens, dirty talk through text and do ya thing , use a toy or your hands during the call, dirty talk is easy when you're horny cause then you're not worried about what you say and nothing sounds too embarrassing lol at least for me , when you are in the call play with yourself and act as if he's there with you, wear lingerie or cute panties and bra so you feel cute while you're doing it , moan sexy and tell him what you wanna do to him the next time you see him, talk in a "sexy voice" lol and jus say things like "im so wet" "you're voice turns me on so much" "I can't wait to fuck you" etc.

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Just send random texts (pics are good too) that are just kinda flirty or sexy. Just say whatever you'd say in person. Also sometimes my bf and I send each other quote pics through instagram or just text, sometimes sexual or just cute or whatever we find that will spark up a conversation.

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It's weird at first but once youre comfortable with it it'll be much easier. My girlfriend and I found that strip teases and things like that really turned us both on. And maybe led to a bit more than teasing over Skype sometimes...

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Send sexy pictures randomly! It'll spark up something. My boyfriend and I are long distance for right now and we do it a few times during the week until I see him on the weekend. He loves it and I love knowing that he does

Being sexy in an ldr?

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