I have been blessed with my little lady from a previous marriage. Though that marriage was rough and eye opening experience.  Now I am in a relationship with a man who I am totally head over heals in love with and he feels the same. We have talked about having a baby of our own. Earlier in the relationship, it was a flat out "no" since he has 3 children of his own. Now we are planning on getting married and such. We had spoken about having a baby again over the course of time and he has changed his mind. He would love us to have a baby. We are are "trying without trying." Which helps with the areas of having to have sex on specific days at specific times. So far it's been all negative tests. He doesn't know when I test, because I want to one day tell him we are pregnant. It's now been 10 months Ttc. Trying to be positive but sometimes it difficult. 😔