Opinions

So I am a freshman starting college. I decided to rush this semester. (Try and join a sorority). My bf isn't into the whole thing and has a very vocal opinion. Overall Ik it's not a make or break thing for him and he would just want me to be safe. but I don't want to tell him until after whatever happens. I may not get in one, may drop idk yet. I just want to try and see what happens. He's moving me in two days before all this and then going home. I told my parents to not say anything. Obviously I will tell him after the week but I don't want him to sway my opinion on this. What do y'all think?? We've been dating two years but I feel like this is my life still and I'm young. I thought a lot about this and want this to be my decision 100%. I know most stereotypes are snobby stupid girls and that's not me at all. It's okay that I don't tell him this right?? It's not like I'm cheating or anything that involves him right? Just feel a little guilty....but he's got speeding tickets and waited to handle it to tell me so that's what I'm comparing it to