When will I enjoy it?😩

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So I lost my virginity to my boyfriend a little over a month ago and since then we've had sex 15 times (I'm such a nerd for counting *cringe* 😂) but it's still painful as fuck like I honestly dread it when we're in bed and I can feel his hard on touching my ass cause I know we're about to have sex 😂 (don't get me wrong I'm horny too but the thought of the pain makes me hesitant) every single time feels like the first time... I was just wondering when it starts to feel nice cause I'm starting to wonder why people love it so much 😩 (I'm 21 btw) 👌🏽 and YESSSS!!!! we use lube every single time 😔

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it may be positioning? have you switched it up? Are you relaxed? you may not be spending enough time on foreplay

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You might need to give yourself a few days between to heal before you're ready to have sex again. Once your vagina is no longer sore (even a little) try again and make sure to do lots of foreplay as others have said.

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Thanks ladies I appreciate all the advice you've given me, and will take everything on board for the next time me and my boyfriend have sex, you're all legends 😁👏🏽 would have been so lost if it wasn't for you guys and this app 😅

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I would say perhaps you aren't spending enough time on foreplay? It is very important to do more than just lube up and go at it 😉 You could also try different positions. Girl riding on top gives you control of the angle and depth, so you can adjust your body position to what feels good. Just be patient with yourself and communicate with your partner.

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Off the top of my head I would say try some more foreplay? The longer you guys focus on that, the more natural lubrication there will be, and your vagina will loosen up more as well.
Besides that, it could be that you guys are being rougher, that usually leads to some pain for me anyway. If he's a little more gentle it may help. 
Worst case scenario you could go see a doctor about it. They might have more advice and could see if maybe there's a medical issue. 
One last thing and this might be a bit tmi, but how big is your bf? I know for me a guy who's bigger can cause me some pain every time 🤷‍♀️ just the way it is.

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It should always feel good

When will I enjoy it?😩

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