Do you get wet..

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my husband get a upset with me because I don't get wet. he says that i must not be attracted to him. I am very attracted to him. I don't no if this is a common thing.  I have a few friends who say they have the same problem. I don't no what else I can do to make him feel like I'm into him. we use gel but I don't think he likes that all the time.

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Does he do foreplay? Because I would say a majority of women don't just get wet on command. At least I don't. Sounds like he needs to be a little better about getting you going.

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Try moisturizing yourself (during the part of day you're not having sex) with a natural oil like coconut oil. Also, are you dry inside (maybe health issue) or outside (very normal but still uncomfortable)? The lube you are using for sex could also be problematic; try to make sure it has a similar ph to a healthy vagina. You can always put it in before sex too!  
Finally, your bf shouldn't be making you feel bad about your body or putting pressure on you to "perform" your sexual interest! That itself would turn me off and stop the juices flowing.

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if your on any type of hormonal birth control that can cause you to be dry and also some other medications. I was on the pill for 3 years and took  two shots of depo and when I finally got off of all birth control I've never been juicier lol.

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Generally my bf and i have to do foreplay for me to get wet I'm not like on command for getting wet lol tell him you need more foreplay or maybe spice things up a bit 🔥🔥🔥

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I had a roommate and she had the same issue. She always kept an ample supply of ky jelly.

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There could be a medical reason why. Have you ever discussed this with a doctor?

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Agree with Jordan!

Do you get wet..

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