I wish there was an option for "just not for me". I don't care if someone else wants to do that. I didn't even see a point to a bachelor/ette party.

I don't care if people do it but I hate when they say "it's your last night of being single" like no, it's not. Your last night of being single was the night before you guys got together.

We didn't have strippers at our bachelor/bachelorette parties and I'm pretty sure it happens much less in real life than people think. I used to work at an adult shop that sold a lot of bachelor/bachelorette stuff and most of the guys that came in were doing stuff like fishing and camping for their bachelor parties while the women were having spa days and cocktail nights. It was rare either gender was planning on having strippers. I doubt people were just omitting the stripper part while sharing their plans either 'cause believe me, people overshare everything in the adult shop because they assume you've heard and seen it all.

I always hate when people say at bachelor/bachelorette parties "it's your last night being single!" When you're in a relationship and then engaged you are not single just because you're not married yet.

I just don't see the the point in spending a couple hundred dollars on someone to take off their clothes. That to me doesn't scream "party!!!" But I guess if that's your idea of fun...🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️

ifff we can all go to the same female strip club... Like lets get all of our friends, male amd female, and see some boobs. I have no desire for some dudes oily dick flopping around in my face.

Its not a must, but yes there can be strippers for either party

If I ever get married (unlikely but we'll say if for the sake of this question) and my bachelorette party doesn't have a stripper, or take place at a strip club I will be very disappointed and demand a re-do js 🤷🏻♀️