I'm still new at sex and my boyfriend knows it still hurts but her just goes in very roughy and it makes it hurt worse. Should I tell him??

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My boyfriend has a very large dick. Like 10 inches. HUGE. He likes to go in all the way. He'll say, " yeah take that big dick!" And ill have to tell him he feels amazing because he is such a sweet guy, and I don't want to hurt his feelings. But he goes in and doesn't start slow, he goes in hard and fast. And no lube and no condom. I use the pill. But is their a way to stop the pain without telling him to stop? Please comment and tell me?!?!?

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You have to speak up. What do you expect he's going to think when you say it feels amazing? Tell him it hurts. Be communicative. It will never be enjoyable for you if you always lie about what you like and what you don't like. Who cares if he is a sweet guy. You're not being rude by saying you're in pain. If he is really a sweet guy, he'd want to know if he is hurting you.

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That is so bad for your cervix. Stop lying to him and tell him to use some restraint.

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You don't have to fake pleasure just because he's your boyfriend. Don't tell him it feels amazing if it doesn't, or he'll keep doing it.

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The fact that you're willing to endure physical pain just to pleasure him is very concerning tbh. Don't be afraid to speak up

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You will probably need lube, and definitely to relax. When you start hurting down there, you tense up without noticing and it only causes more pain. You also need to be honest because I'm sure if he knew he was hurting you, he would want to stop right away. Vaginas take awhile to adjust to the bigger things lol just be patient and honest because your poor vagina is probably in flames after sex 😭

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I'd tell him look hun your hurting me, take I slower.. Don't let him keep doing that if it's hurting you.. If he loves you he'll understand

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WOW not okay at all. Definitely tell him

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you need to tell him

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Use lube!

I'm still new at sex and my boyfriend knows it still hurts but her just goes in very roughy and it makes it hurt worse. Should I tell him??

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