Is it me or him?

Question

My husband and I have been trying to get pregnant since September of 2011! I have gone in and had my fallopian tubes checked and got the all clear and now I can not get my husband to go in and get checked! He always has an excuse! I am so ready to start our little family but get let down every month when I get my period! Any advise?

Answer

Well, I'm not sure if it's you or him, but the right issue to focus on is his denial to get checked. Maybe that's what you should ask?  Why won't he get tested especially since you already did? Kudos to you for taking that step! Good job mama and way to be brave.  Shame on him for all the excuses. What's his real problem? Goodluck and maybe therapy can help if he won't speak about the issue. I'm sure you can resolve this.

Answer

At the drug store they have at home sperm tests.  I'm not sure how accurate they are but you could maybe try that

Is it me or him?

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